t-30: take time to reflect and re-calibrate every once in a while

t-29: silence can be powerful

t-28: the easiest way to get in a good mood is simply to put on a soft tune, walk slower, and smile at the world :)
t-27: true friends care about your well-being. need to be a good friend and call when my friends need support  
t-26: i am lucky to have friends who care :)
t-25: emotional rebound is inevitable.. but not impossible to get over.  just need the right types of distraction
t-24: need more broadway (shows) in my life
t-23: planning ahead = #winning :D
t-22: trust my own instinct/judgement and be the master of my own life. don't let "protocols/systems" to tell me what to do. (re: working from home on polar vortex days)
t-21: alcohol can really impede one's decision making ability... o_O  drink less, regardless of the situation!
t-20: treat myself to a massage.  life is so much better after one. :)
t-19: more museum days needed.  great to get some culture on
t-18: be sincere, but sometimes, 装傻 is the best attitude
t-17: patience (not passiveness) is a virtue - good things come to those who wait.